{"id":125,"date":"2022-12-26T20:08:33","date_gmt":"2022-12-26T20:08:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/?p=125"},"modified":"2022-12-26T20:40:38","modified_gmt":"2022-12-26T20:40:38","slug":"attractions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/?p=125","title":{"rendered":"Attractions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Photo: &#8220;Neither Mine Nor Yours, 9- view 2&#8221; by <a href=\"https:\/\/michelledickson.com\/artwork\/4290773-Neither-Mine-Nor-Yours-9-view-2.html\">Michelle Dickson<\/a> &#8211; (<a href=\"https:\/\/michelledickson.com\/\">Website<\/a>) (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mdickson_art\/\">Instagram<\/a>) Used with permission of the creator.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Listening to: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=3v7PHoCYmts\">Video Killed the Radio Star &#8211; Bruce Woolley &amp; the Camera Club<\/a><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A Guardian article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/film\/2021\/jan\/28\/carey-mulligan-review-variety-promising-young-woman\">&#8216;They said I wasn&#8217;t hot enough&#8217;: Carey Mulligan hits out again at magazine review<\/a> just pissed me off (again) about the media&#8217;s attempts to control what or who we find attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a society we should grow up and recognize that everybody has different tastes and stop &#8220;listening to the voices&#8221;. Personally I find &#8220;character&#8221; attractive. What kind? Who knows, until it smacks one upside the head. Imagining what it&#8217;s like to talk to someone seems far more relevant than wondering how the masses will judge you with &#8220;that on your arm&#8221;. After all, there is only so long you can strut around in public, and a whole lot of time spent in private communicating with that person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The same can go for media we consume. If you were casting a movie, would you want to pick actors that were right for the part or a generically attractive cast to please the broadest of fan bases (and the marketing department)? And I&#8217;ll admit here to indulging in a bit of reverse discrimination. If looking for a show to watch and the caption picture is filled with a (oft retouched) attractive ensemble cast, I&#8217;ll not read the description and move on. After all, if the casting is that generic, imagine what the script is like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There have been a few interesting science articles about attraction in the past. From the <a href=\"http:\/\/sitn.hms.harvard.edu\/flash\/2017\/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-companionship\/\">chemical science behind lust, attraction and companionship<\/a> to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S1090513814001111\">mid-20&#8217;s females are the most attractive to the broadest range of people<\/a> or that if you <a href=\"https:\/\/fstoppers.com\/portraits\/average-faces-women-around-world-2944\">average the faces of multiple people it turns out attractive<\/a>. The age based bias seems obvious because of ingrained reproduction strategies, but the latter is interesting in that stereo-typically attractive people could be considered &#8220;generic&#8221;. And perhaps visually boring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or perhaps that&#8217;s just my own slant on things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(edit: deleted personal content)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Photo: &#8220;Neither Mine Nor Yours, 9- view 2&#8221; by Michelle Dickson &#8211; (Website) (Instagram) Used with permission of the creator. Listening to: Video Killed the Radio Star &#8211; Bruce Woolley &amp; the Camera Club A Guardian article &#8216;They said I wasn&#8217;t hot enough&#8217;: Carey Mulligan hits out again at magazine review just pissed me off [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":126,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-125","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-rants","category-science"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=125"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":144,"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125\/revisions\/144"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/126"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=125"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=125"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dretch.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=125"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}